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I Have No Idea What I’m Doing

by Erica

Confession. I have no idea what I’m doing. But I’m happy. I’m happy because I know how I feel. And nothing else matters right now. The other night Mr. S tried to tell me what being “In Love” looks like. I laughed because he seemed to be describing what I call infatuation. And that’s a [...]

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Boulder Magic

by Erica

Photo by Let Ideas Compete There is an old man checking his hair in the mirror over my head here at Trident (aka Andrew Hyde’s Office), while I sip a Bhakti Chai and contemplate life. It is one of those perfect Boulder Days where the sun is shining and it’s a refreshing 68°. There’s a [...]

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Some Things Are Too Personal

by Erica

Photo by tibchris There is a game I play every day with Mr. S. At first I felt really silly about it, but now it’s starting to come naturally. When I sat down to write this post, I thought I was going to give you the details of our game…but then I decided that I [...]

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van Gogh Knew More About Love Than I Thought

by Erica

“Since the beginning of this love I have felt that unless I gave myself up to it entirely, without any restrictions, with all my heart, there was no chance for me whatever….But what is it to me whether my chance is slight or great? I mean, must I consider this when I love? No – [...]

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The Story Of Your Life

by Erica

I like to think that I’m open and honest here. I like to think that I share the “real” me with you. I like to think that I’m as vulnerable, raw, and naked as it’s humanly possible to be in this space. But according to Mr. S – I’m not. According to him I only [...]

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It’s Almost Impossible to Get Sober in a Bar

by Erica

Photo by miss_rogue This is a post about addiction. I’m addicted. And if you’re reading this post, you probably are too! I’m addicted to feedback. To stimulation. To information. To communicating with all of you on every Social Network and Platform known to man. Recently I was struck by something my friend Gary said in his [...]

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Sfumato – Get Comfortable with Uncertainty

by Erica

Tonight I was having a conversation with my friend Scott (pictured above) about Trust and Uncertainty. For me, trust is a black and white issue. Scott challenged me by asking: “Who defined trust as black and white? Isn’t there trust purgatory?” According to Scott, Trust Purgatory is that time period where you’re still learning about [...]

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For A Dear Old Friend

by Erica

Dear Marc, I’ve got to admit you had me worried there my friend. I hear that the whole city of LA was looking for you this weekend. You’re living up to your reputation as an International Man of Mystery. I don’t know why you’ve left us. But I’m sure you have your reasons. I wanted [...]

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Matchmaker, Matchmaker Make Me A Match

by Erica

Photo by Mr. S1 Today I enjoyed a delightful lunch with Houston’s premiere Matchmaker, Nina Friedman (better known as Yenta Girl). With over 20 years experience, and 9 successful marriages under her belt, Nina is a no-nonsense, live out loud, cut to the heart of the matter kind of gal. Having never met a real [...]

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