Back To Basics

by Erica on April 13, 2009

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I’m having an identity crisis.  I’m trying to reconcile who I am – with who I want to be.  In my last post I talked about how I’m getting ready to leap ahead of what I think is going to be the “Next Big Trend”.  Giving up your old life and identity is hard.  There is so much I love about who I am right now.  About this life.

I love working in Social Media.  I love being recognized as a leader in this space.  I love getting honored by countless organizations and publications for the work I’ve been doing over the last 6 years.  I love the image of who I am.  And that’s something that is VERY difficult to give up.  And I’m not just giving it up – I’m starting over from scratch.  With one decision, I’m going from Expert to Beginner.  Scott Porad and I were doing our first “Moment of Bliss” podcast yesterday, and I equated it to going from being the Top Dog in Middle School to being a Lowly Freshman in High School.  From being the one with all the answers, to being the one with all the questions.

So I went back, and I took a look at my Personal Mission Statement.  I think everyone should have a written Personal Mission Statement.  There are few things of greater value in this world than knowing what you stand for.  Below is a copy of my Personal Mission Statement:

Core Beliefs:

I believe that chaos and structure are not mutually exclusive, that people can and do get ahead by doing “the right thing”, and that doing something out of passion and love is far more important than doing something for money.

Core Values:

  • Simplicity
  • Integrity of Word, Honor, and Deed
  • Equality
  • Be Remarkable Instead of Big
  • Innovate or Stagnate
  • Dream Impossible Dreams (or there is no such thing as Impossible)
  • Rules are Meant to be Broken
  • Speak Out
  • Community Matters
  • Fortune Favors the Bold
  • Peace

Who Am I?

I am a Community Evangelist, A Designer, A Coder, A Hacker, A Social Media Maven, A Geek Gal, A Web Developer, A Community Leader, A Radio Personality, A Catalyst for Change, A World Traveler, A Writer, A Collector, A Blogger, A Creative, An Idealist, An Objectivist, and a Genuinely Good Person (or so Ed Tells me).

What do I want from my life?

I want to be able to live with Passion – to never compromise On The Truth, On My Reputation, or On The Quality of My Work. I want to build and nurture communities, I want to inspire – connect – and mentor people with passion.

What do I value?

I value talent, community, ideas, passion, curiosity, intelligence, and the truth.

What are my talents?

Creating Connections, Spreading Ideas, Inspiring People, Leading Communities, Connecting Communities, Teaching, Designing, All Things Techie, Social Media Strategies.

At the end of my life, what do I want to have accomplished?

I would like to look back on my life and find that I lived every moment – that I have had more failures than successes – and that I made a difference in the lives of the people I met along the way.

Two things immediately struck me.  First, whether I keep doing what I’m doing now, or I start doing what I’m dreaming of…I’ll still be living in accordance with my Core Values.  And what’s more, I’ll still be “nurturing communites, while inspiring & connecting people”.  Perhaps in a bigger way than I am now.  And that’s exciting.  And to top it all off – I’ll still be using my natural talents.  I know I keep returning again and again to Joseph Campbell (trust me there is a reason for this) – but my hope is that I am giving up the life I have planned, in order to have the life that is waiting for me.  Because, “The Privilege of a Lifetime, is Being Who You Are.” ~Joseph Campbell.

And the Second thing that struck me, is that it’s harder to grow when people look on you as an expert.  Even in a field that changes as rapidly as Technology & Social Media, at some point we all fall victim to our own echo chamber.  And it’s difficult to grow in a Vacuum.

But here is what’s great!  This gives me an opportunity to get Back to Basics.  Every great journey starts in Curiosity.  And that’s definitely what has been missing from my life.  An unstoppable drive to know.  But I’ve found it again, and in the most unexpected place.  And I get to go back to “Being Remarkable instead of Big”.  A lot of times we start to put too much importance on our own personal influence.  This is the biggest mistake I see people in Social Media making today.  We forget that influence is relative, conditional, and often fleeting.

This is something I personally struggle with.  I mean – I used to be the #1 Erica in the World according to Google…and then I was #2…and today I’m #3.  It’s tough when we build our reputations on Castles in the Clouds.  Sometimes you need to step back to basics and rebuild that foundation.

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Jason April 13, 2009 at 10:12 pm

Erica,

I’ve always respected your direction, conviction, expertise and overall cheerfulness. I’m sure you’ll do great in your next iteration.

And I was always told to surround yourself with people better than yourself. Also that once we stop learning, we stop living. So it seems you have the right idea!

Jason

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Hugo Rodriguez- Ugalde April 13, 2009 at 10:18 pm

You are a people person! You connect with people, it’s only natural that you make a living out of connecting people to people. You HAVE made a difference, you ARE making a difference.

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Imelda April 14, 2009 at 12:55 pm

If you build it.. she will come :D

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jeremiah andrick April 15, 2009 at 12:06 am

The more things change the more they stay the same. I hope awesome stuff happens soon.

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shelley roth April 16, 2009 at 10:33 am

Hi Erica, I think its terrific that you are taking a new direction. I have lived my life with the philosophy that if you are not learning, you are not growing and thus am adding a new direction in my life. What new direction are you going? also, i have some clients that need a “social media expert” to set up various tools…if you are moving on, can you recommend a couple of people? thanks

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Mel April 17, 2009 at 10:59 am

Great post. Thanks for making me think and contemplate my own identity crisis.

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@KurtyD April 19, 2009 at 5:40 pm

Erica! So good to see you again in LA, even though it was only for a quick min. It’s so fun seeing the effect you have on people. They LOVE you and it’s contagious. You’ve inspired me to put my personal mission statement together! Kudos~

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