Comments on: 5 Steps to Stop “Being Too Nice”

By: pinkikitti

pinkikitti — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:28:46 +0000

COMMENTING on my own reply the whole idea on how 2 stop being 2 nice … What is 2 nice? & what happens when everyone stops being 2 nice & just nice then what happens when being plain nice seems 2 some how be 2 nice again & then just being nice ends up 2 be “y r they being nice? what’s their motive behind the nice?”
Its a terrible idea 2 stop being too nice. It is a very good idea 2 learn 2 be nicer and 2 reach out a helping hand & cast a smile & wink. Someone might really need it. *PSG

By: pinkikitti

pinkikitti — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:11:15 +0000

Yeah, I’m 2 nice …some times I wanna shake the niceness off, but when I do I feel lke I’m not being myself. I don’t want 2 be mean or not express my positivity in this world, which deff needs it I’d say.
It is kinda weird I’m being very ginuwine, but I think people take it the wrong way,they think I’m being fake I think, or maybe even they are jealous & wonder y I’m so happy & positive in my life. I feel lke I’m being judged by being nice 2 people also being positive & optimistic. I just really value my familys & friends. I believe U shd stick 2 your guns & still show the world U! Don’t back down because someone gives u a negitive energy or tells u “u r 2 nice!” Tell them “well I think u are 2 blahh & I’m sorry u can’t be as niice as me but I lke your new shoes! Hav a good day!” *PSG

By: woolly

woolly — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 08:48:34 +0000

My problem is I want everyone to like me. That is why I am too nice.

By: littlea

littlea — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 15:16:09 +0000

Plan less do more, that’s a good one. I spend time putting things in my diary then when it comes to doing the thing, I make an excuse not to do it. Then plan more stuff… (duh!)

By: Arsh

Arsh — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 12:31:13 +0000

Awesome post. I have always been “too nice” with everyone. My parents taught me to be like this and its now in roots of my system. I have realised that by being too nice, you actually put people off.

My biggest problem is that I tend to care a lot about what others think. I don’t have any self esteem issues or anything and I’m a very positive individual but I always seem to care about what others think of me. I really need to work on that.

And yes I have read the book “Feel The FEAR, and Do It Anyway.”

By: LD

LD — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 15:33:36 +0000

Amen to that…

By: Kevin

Kevin — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 00:53:59 +0000

#3 and #5 are right on the money. To HELL with fear. And get your hands dirty. Now. Dive in and solve some problems. Kick some ass. Take a few names. People like ‘nice’ but business and getting shit done requires ditching ‘nice’ and taking some action. Dig it.

By: KBlog by Kimberly Blessing | The Nice Girl/Angry Woman Paradox

KBlog by Kimberly Blessing | The Nice Girl/Angry Woman Paradox — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 08:16:54 +0000

[...] No wonder why so many women end up adopting a “nice girl” approach in business. But you know what? That doesn’t work either — at least not for the woman trying to always be so nice. That’s why I’m glad to see that Erica wrote up her 5 steps to stop being too nice. I was also pleasantly surprised by the book Ambitchous by Debra Condren, which promotes embracing ambition as a virtue, standing up for one’s self, and being authentic in order to be achieve success on one’s own terms and to be happy with one’s life. [...]